It's been awhile since we've gathered,
a lot of busyness,
naps, schedules, work, trips, laundry,
life,
a lot seems to get in the way.
So a day like yesterday was sweet to us
a day to celebrate
one of us
but really celebrating
all of us,
just being together
all of us.
Logistics are a little trickier,
and at one point,
we realized
just about every one
was holding at least one.
We are pretty much out numbered
by a lot of babies.
And it's a lot of fun,
a full blessing.
So with blue skies
and acquired bandaids
we spent the afternoon hugging a lot,
eating a lot,
walking a lot,
and fishing a lot.
With a lot more sunscreen next time.
We're a peculiar family sometimes,
as all families probably are.
We have our quirks, we don't really have many traditions,
we laugh a lot, we cry a lot,
we text a lot, we tease a lot,
we like to be together a lot.
This all, however, is not to be confused with perfection.
Just like all of us, we have a lot of disfunction.
We have some of us who run our calendars tightly,
some of us who hate to be pinned down.
We have the jokesters and the goofy dancers,
and then the thinkers, the sentimentals.
We've had our fair share of hurt and misunderstanding,
and the three of us girls still get a little tense about the borrowing terms for certain items from our closets.
But, ultimately, grace and forgiveness ushers in the loyalty of blood,
the blessing, the gift of family prevails,
in spite of, because of the beautiful chaos the lot of us bring.
And sometimes it's good when it's been awhile since the lot of us has gathered,
because it reminds me of the sweetness of the simplicity of simply togetherness.